3 Leadership Secrets That Will Completely Change How You Lead

Over the years, I’ve read countless leadership and self-help books, each with its own insights and advice. But after diving into over 100 different perspectives, I’ve noticed that some ideas contradict one another, and a few behavioral attributes seem a bit too idealistic. So, instead of following every single piece of advice, I’ve focused on the practical lessons I’ve learned through experience. And from my journey, I believe these three leadership attributes can make a huge difference in anyone’s career.

1) Breathe

It sounds simple, right? But it’s incredibly powerful, especially in challenging situations. How often have you found yourself reacting immediately, wanting to respond to a question or comment without taking a moment to breathe? I know I have. Sometimes we rush to answer, especially when we feel threatened or misunderstood, and that can lead to saying things we regret.

One of the most important things I’ve learned as a leader is to pause and breathe before responding, especially in stressful moments. This is crucial whether you’re facing a senior leader’s question or navigating a difficult discussion with peers or team members. Taking a breath gives you a moment to collect your thoughts and respond with clarity. In a toxic environment where colleagues often tried to…